Thursday, May 21, 2009

Is my baby a good baby?







I have had several people ask this question and I want to answer them honestly, but don't know what to say. I hate when people say their baby is the best baby ever, but they have to hold their baby all the time or their baby doesn't sleep through the night, but is extremly happy. So, I will honestly tell you about my baby and you can decide for yourself is he is a good baby.....





Lincoln Sleeping:
Lincoln began sleeping 6-7hrs at night without eating at 5weeks old. He sleeps between 15-17 hrs a day.

Lincoln can cry himself to sleep, I have read that I baby can't cry themselves to sleep until 6 months, but after only 5 minutes of crying Lincoln is out like a rock.


Lincoln has never given me a problem at night. No crying for no reason, no staying awake for no reason (except a couple of nights his first week of life, but my mom was there so I don't count it cause I got to sleep :)haha).


Lincoln is REALLY grumpy when he is sleepy and at first I just thought he was being a cranky baby, but now I bundle him up and lay him in his bed and he literally falls asleep without a fuss.

Lincoln knows his bed time. He will be wide awake and I put him in bed wide awake and he goes to sleep.

however, unlike the happy baby that wakes up and just lays there happy, lincoln grunts and groans and cries as he wakes up and when he is finally awake he is not happy and cries real loud until I get him.

Being good for no reason at all:

About 1-2hrs of the day Lincoln just lays there and stares off into space. He doesn't talk or anything just stares and looks around and looks cute.


He makes really serious faces and I usually just let him take in his surroundings.


This is my favorite time of day cause I can't figure out what is so amazing to him



Cranky Time: From 9:30-10:30

he cries and nothing can stop him except being held

and loved

and walked around

and moved around a lot


Lincoln cries:


yes i admit my baby cries a good hour of the day when he is hungry, sleepy, bored, and sometimes for no reason at all.


i am a bad parent and take pictures of him crying cause i think he is so dang cute and i know i should be comforting him instead of grabbing the camera and snapping a cute shot.


Lincoln eats about 3-3 1/2 hours of the day

this is a very serious time

most babies are happy when they eat, but lincoln is just getting it done

but at least he isn't being cranky or difficult


the rest of the day, Lincoln needs to be kept entertained so we

swing in his swingg
go on stroller rides
play with daddy

and bounce in his bouncer


Overall I think my baby is a good baby, but it's my first. I am going to assume he is REALLY good so when I have my next baby I don't expect that baby to be better. I am just really happy I have a baby that sleeps even though he is pretty grumpy and serious about life.

7 comments:

Maria said...

I think if you are lucky enough to have a baby that sleeps well LIFE IS GOOD. Even a grumpy or needy baby (which Lincoln doesn't seem to be either) is easier to handle after a good nights rest. I think you got a good one there. Any even if he wasn't good...his cuteness makes up for it!

Lisa and Randy said...

I can't believe how he has grown. All those serious looks are so darn cute. Reagan was a bit of a needy baby. When she was Lincoln's age she wasn't happy unless I was carrying her in her snuggly. But she was too cute for me to really care!! It doesn't really matter if babies are good or not because you love them to death either way. It goes by so fast...enjoy him while he's little you'll miss it!!

Jarmandashmar said...

Heather oh my goodness! Lincoln is so cute! And you are right, your baby is really good:) I'm glad that you got a good baby and that you feel like you got a good baby. P.S. you look amazing! He's getting so big and you are already back to your normal size. Can't wait to see him and you this fall!

Katie said...

Your little guy is SO CUTE! I especially love that you have a cute little polka dot outfit that matches his polka dot blanket (or crib bedding, I can't quite tell). Sounds like you have a pretty good baby. :)

Nate and Chelsea Peck said...

he's so cute! I'm glad he is so good for you guys!

The Hargrave Clan said...

I LOVE LINCOLN!!! He is adorable, and I have no doubts that he is a good baby! I am so happy for you!

Mel Brown said...

I love all those pictures! He is super cute! I wish i could have played with him more, but you up and moved back east... geez.